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Blameworthy Character. Akhlaaq e Razeela

Riya. Showing Off

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The scholars call it minor shirk. A single sentence spoken to the wrong person can waste the reward of an entire night's worship. And it operates so quietly that most people who have it do not see it.

Based on Islah ul Akhlaaq by Arif Billah Hazrat Maulana Shah Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar رحمة الله عليه, drawing from the teachings of Hakim ul Ummat Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi رحمة الله عليه.

What is Riya?

Riya means showing off. In Islamic spirituality it refers specifically to performing good deeds, worship, acts of piety, anything done for the Deen, with the intention of being seen, praised, and admired by people. The deed is done not purely for Allah but also, or primarily, so that others will think well of you.

Riya always lives in acts of worship and in religious actions. It can enter prayer, fasting, recitation of Quran, giving charity, speaking knowledge, even adopting an appearance of piety. Any act that should be for Allah alone can be corrupted by Riya the moment the nafs begins seeking people's attention through it.

The disease is particularly insidious because the outer form of the deed remains. The person still prays, still recites, still appears devout. The corruption is entirely internal, in the intention behind the act. And that corruption, invisible to everyone else, is precisely what erases the reward before Allah.

"Good deeds done for the purpose of showing people and earning their praise and admiration, the scholars say on the Day of Qiyamah the reward of such deeds will be punishment instead of reward. But if a person makes Tawbah before dying, there is hope of forgiveness."

Islah ul Akhlaaq. Arif Billah Hazrat Maulana Shah Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar رحمة الله عليه


Why the Scholars Call It Minor Shirk

Shirk means associating a partner with Allah. Major shirk is worshipping something alongside or instead of Allah. Minor shirk is subtler: it is performing an act of worship while simultaneously seeking the approval or admiration of something other than Allah, in the case of Riya, the approval of people.

When a person prays and the heart is also seeking people's admiration, two things are happening at once. The body is performing an act that belongs only to Allah. And the heart is presenting it also to people. The deed has been split, its outer form goes to Allah, its inner desire goes to people. This splitting of what should be entirely for Allah is why the scholars use the word shirk, even though it is the minor form.

What Allah will say on the Day of Qiyamah

Allah will say to the person whose deeds were mixed with Riya: Go to those people for whom you did these deeds, and see whether they have any reward for you. Those people will all be dust in their graves. There will be nothing. The reward was sought from creation, and creation has nothing to give.

This is why the hadith of the scholar, the martyr, and the qari, covered in the Ikhlaas page, is so devastating. Three of the greatest possible deeds. All destroyed because the intention was mixed with Riya. Riya does not diminish the reward partially. It eliminates it entirely and replaces it with its opposite.


How Riya Silently Destroys Deeds

Riya does not announce itself. It enters quietly, through a word, a sentence, a passing mention, and the reward is gone. Consider this example from the page:

A person prays two nafl of worship with full sincerity. Then later, in conversation, they mention it, "I recited Quran today," or "I was up for tahajjud last night," or "We stayed and prayed after Isha." In that one sentence, the reward of the nafl is wasted. The people hear it, and that is what the person sought, and that is all they receive for it.

The mechanism is simple: whatever the heart sought, it gets, and nothing more. If the heart sought Allah's pleasure alone, the reward is with Allah. If the heart also sought people's admiration, the reward goes to that, and the record with Allah is left empty.

Riya also has a physical shape that a person can test themselves against. Sit alone. Close your eyes. Imagine all people are seated around you, watching every movement of your prayer. Now notice what happens inside. If the prayer becomes different, more careful, more visible, more elaborate, that difference is Riya. The desire for their admiration was already there, waiting for an audience. The act changes when people are watching because it was never fully for Allah when they were not.

"This sickness comes from Hirs, greed for people's esteem and status. It produces the desire for people's admiration in worship. And it is Riya."

Islah ul Akhlaaq. Arif Billah Hazrat Maulana Shah Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar رحمة الله عليه


What Is Not Riya

Two important clarifications prevent the disease from being used against good deeds that have nothing wrong with them.

Being seen while doing a good deed is not Riya

Riya is about intention, not visibility. Praying in a masjid where people can see you is not Riya. Giving charity in a gathering is not Riya. Teaching knowledge to students is not Riya. None of these become Riya simply because others are present. Riya requires the intention of seeking their praise to be in the heart. If the intention is for Allah, the presence of people changes nothing.

Abandoning a good deed to avoid being seen is also Riya

This is the subtle trap covered in detail on the Ikhlaas page. If a person stops praying, stops giving, stops doing good because they are worried people will notice and think they are showing off, that decision is still being made for people. They abandoned the deed for people's sake. That is still Riya, just facing the other direction.

There is also a specific case the scholars address: if a person is someone whose example others follow, a teacher, a scholar, a public figure, and being seen performing a good act will encourage others to do the same, then performing it visibly is not only permitted but can itself be an act of worship. The intention remains for Allah, and the benefit to others follows from that.


The Cure for Riya

The cure for Riya has two components, a thought to hold before every deed, and a practice to build over time.

The Thought. Before Every Good Deed

Before doing any good deed, think: if I show this to people, those people will not be there. All of them will eventually be dust in their graves. There is no one to impress. Only Allah's rida remains. His pleasure is the only thing that endures. Do the deed for that rida, and nothing else.

This thought, held genuinely before the act, cuts the audience away. There is no one to perform for. Whatever the nafs was seeking from people becomes suddenly unavailable. And the deed can return to being what it always should have been: between the person and Allah.

The second component is Muraqaba, the constant awareness of Allah's presence. When a person genuinely feels that Allah is always present and watching, the audience is never absent. The question is not whether to perform for people or not, it is simply: am I performing for the one who is always here? Muraqaba makes Allah the audience, and Riya becomes structurally impossible when that awareness is strong.

A Story About the Tongue

A severe drought struck a region. An elder among the people said: Mashallah, what a magnificent rain Allah gave, how extraordinary. His companions immediately fell into shame and Tawbah. They realised: even in a moment of genuine gratitude, the tongue had produced a sentence of admiration for his own observation, and the nafs had slipped in. The tongue must be watched very carefully. Even well-intentioned speech can carry Riya in a single phrase. Shaykh Sa'di رحمة الله عليه said: think deeply before speaking. If you must stay silent for a long time, then speak only what is useful.

Guard the tongue most

Most Riya escapes through the tongue, a mention here, a word there, a sentence in conversation. The deed may have been done sincerely, but the mention afterwards introduces what was not there before. Guarding the tongue from unnecessary mention of one's own worship is the most direct protection.

Do not mention your worship to others

The prayer prayed in private, the Quran read when alone, the fast kept quietly, these are the deeds most protected from Riya. If there is no one to tell and no one to impress, Riya has no entrance. The habit of not speaking about one's own worship is itself a cure for the disease.

When Riya waswasa comes, continue the deed

The thought of Riya entering the mind during a good deed is not itself Riya, it is Shaytan's attempt to stop the deed by making you think you are corrupted. Continue. Do not abandon the deed because of the waswasa. Abandoning it would give Shaytan exactly what he wants. Keep doing the deed while refusing the intention of showing off.


The Dua for Protection from Riya and Shirk

A specific dua for protection from Riya is mentioned in hadith. Reading it abundantly is prescribed as a means of protection, with the hope that Allah will guard the person from this disease through its blessing.

دعا برائے حفاظت رِيا و شرک

اَللّٰهُمَّ إِنِّيْ أَعُوْذُ بِكَ أَنْ أُشْرِكَ بِكَ شَيْئاً وَّ أَنَا أَعْلَمُ وَ أَسْتَغْفِرُكَ لِمَا لَا أَعْلَمُ

"O Allah, I seek refuge in You from associating anything with You that I know of, and I seek Your forgiveness for what I do not know."

Dua for protection from Riya and Shirk, narrated in hadith

The dua covers two fronts. The first part, "that I know of", addresses the Riya a person can see in themselves: the conscious desire for praise that they recognise when they look honestly. The second part, "what I do not know", addresses the Riya that is hidden even from the person themselves: the subtle, unnamed desire for appreciation that slips into deeds without the person fully noticing it.

This second part is the one that humbles. Even a person who believes they have purified their intention may have traces of Riya they cannot see. The dua is an acknowledgment of that possibility and a request for forgiveness from it. Read it abundantly, morning and evening, and before acts of worship.


The Most Direct Path Out of Riya

Ikhlaas, the genuine sincerity that is Riya's opposite, is only attained through the love of the people of Allah, their suhbat, and their service. This is stated directly in the teaching:

"Ikhlaas is the treasure that is only found through the love of the people of Allah and their suhbat and their service. The suhbat of the Allah wala is very important, it is a necessary form of worship from which all acts of worship receive their Ikhlaas."

Islah ul Akhlaaq. Arif Billah Hazrat Maulana Shah Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar رحمة الله عليه

Riya is ultimately a disease of misplaced audience. The person performing for people does so because people feel more present and more immediate than Allah. Suhbat with those who have genuine Muraqaba and love of Allah shifts that. In their company, Allah feels more present. The internal audience changes. And when Allah becomes more present than people, Riya has no one to perform for.

This is why the cure for Riya is not primarily a mental exercise but a relational one: sit with those whose deeds are genuinely for Allah, and let that orientation transfer. The heart absorbs what it is surrounded by. Fill it with the right company, and the disease loses its ground.

Riya is subtle. It has been present in the deeds of people who appeared outwardly very righteous, including, as the hadith warns, scholars, martyrs, and Quran reciters. The protection is not confidence in one's own sincerity but consistent, honest self-examination, the dua for protection, and the company of those whose deeds are genuinely for Allah. Those three together are the guard against this disease.

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