What is Shukar?
Shukar means gratitude, but it goes well beyond saying Alhamdulillah. In the Islamic understanding of this trait, Shukar is the full act of recognising a blessing, understanding who it came from, and responding in a way that genuinely reflects that recognition, in the heart, on the tongue, and in action.
A person can say Alhamdulillah a hundred times a day without actually having Shukar. If the tongue says it while the heart has no awareness of the blessing, and the behaviour does not change as a result, the word is empty. Genuine Shukar is when all three are aligned, the heart recognises the blessing, the tongue expresses it, and the actions reflect it.
Allah promises directly in the Quran that He will increase those who are genuinely grateful. This is not a vague spiritual reward, it is a stated principle. Shukar produces increase. Ingratitude produces the opposite.
لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ ۖ وَلَئِن كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِي لَشَدِيدٌ
"If you are grateful, I will surely increase you, but if you are ungrateful, indeed My punishment is severe."
Surah Ibrahim, 14:7
The Two Types of Shukar
Shukar has two types, not because they are separate obligations, but because a complete Shukar requires both:
Thanking the Khaliq
Thanking Allah, the Creator and the one who originated every blessing. This is the primary and ultimate Shukar. Every blessing, whatever its apparent source, ultimately comes from Him.
Thanking the waseela
Thanking the person through whom the blessing came, the means or channel. Parents, teachers, the Shaykh, anyone who has done you good. Thanking them is part of thanking Allah, not separate from it.
Allah sends most of His blessings through the means of people. A child receives provision through parents. A student receives knowledge through a teacher. A seeker receives guidance through a Shaykh. When someone thanks Allah only and ignores the human through whom the blessing came, treating that person as irrelevant, their Shukar is incomplete. Recognising the waseela and honouring them is itself an act of Shukar to Allah.
The Hadith on Thanking People
"Whoever does not thank people has not thanked Allah."
Prophet Muhammad ﷺ
The Prophet ﷺ did not say thanking people is merely good manners. He said it is part of thanking Allah, so much so that the absence of one means the absence of the other. The person who ignores those who have done good to them, who treats kindness as their due without acknowledgement, has not actually completed their Shukar to Allah.
the way to thank the person through whom the blessing came is:
Return the favour generously
If someone gives you something, give them a gift in return, with generosity beyond a token equivalent. If you can afford more than what they gave, give more.
If you cannot return it materially, praise them
If you cannot give back what was given, because the blessing is too great (as with parents or a teacher), or because it is simply not possible right now, then praise them to others. Mention their kindness. Make their goodness known.
If praising them is not possible, make dua for them
If even that is not possible, perhaps they prefer privacy, or mentioning them publicly would be inappropriate, then make sincere dua for them. Ask Allah to reward them, to bless them, to give them from His endless generosity in return for what they gave you.
Do not hide their kindness
that hiding the kindness of someone who was good to you, concealing it, acting as though it did not happen, is ingratitude. Shukr requires that kindness be recognised, not buried.
Those who specifically deserve this Shukar are parents, the Shaykh, the teacher, and all those who have done ihsan, goodness, toward you. These are the primary channels through which Allah's blessings reach most people, and honouring them is among the clearest expressions of Shukar.
Practical Shukar is More Important Than Verbal Shukar
There is a distinction that matters: verbal Shukar, expressing gratitude with the tongue, is less important than practical Shukar, actually behaving in a way that reflects it.
The Standard of Practical Shukar
Practical Shukar means genuinely becoming the rightful owner of the blessing, truly receiving it with full recognition, and not disobeying the giver, and making every effort to fulfil their rights. Just as a person does this with parents and with teachers, this is how Shukar of Allah's blessings is completed: by not disobeying Him with the very blessings He gave.
This is a sobering point. Using a blessing in a way that displeases the one who gave it is a form of ingratitude, regardless of how many times Alhamdulillah is said. A person who says Alhamdulillah for their health and then uses that health in disobedience to Allah has not completed Shukar. A person who thanks Allah for their wealth and then spends it on what He has prohibited has not completed Shukar.
Genuine Shukar connects the blessing to the Giver and asks: would this use of the blessing please Him? That question, held consistently, is practical Shukar in action.
the full completion of Shukar includes guarding one's good deeds, avoiding sins, and making Tawbah and Istighfar, because Shukar for blessings of worship includes protecting those acts of worship from being destroyed by subsequent sin or insincerity.
The Method. How to Develop Shukar
The method for developing Shukar has a specific name, it is called Infa'amat ul Ilahiya: reflecting on and remembering Allah's favours.
The Method from Islah ul Akhlaaq
Think carefully about Allah's blessings upon you, and remember them regularly, making this a fixed practice, so that they do not become invisible through familiarity. Allah is always giving, thousands of blessings in every moment. This regular reflection is called Infa'amat ul Ilahiya, and it is the foundation of genuine Shukar.
The challenge with Shukar is not that people do not have blessings, everyone has countless blessings. The challenge is that blessings become invisible. When a person has always had eyesight, they stop noticing it as a gift. When they have always had food, they stop registering each meal as a mercy from Allah. Familiarity erases awareness. And when awareness goes, Shukar goes with it.
The method reverses this by making the awareness deliberate and regular. Not a momentary flash of gratitude that passes immediately, but a consistent practice of bringing the blessings to mind so they remain visible.
Think about your blessings specifically
Not vaguely, 'I have many blessings', but specifically. Health: the functioning of each organ, each sense. Provision: where your food came from, who prepared it. Safety. Family. Knowledge. Iman itself. Name them. The specific ones become real in a way that the general does not.
Include blessings you did not ask for
Allah gives many blessings that were never requested, protection from accidents that almost happened, illnesses that almost struck, losses that almost occurred. A person who reflects regularly begins to see these too, not just the obvious blessings they prayed for.
Notice blessings within hardships
that if a difficulty arrives, a person with Shukar finds benefit in it, they find a way to see even the trial as a mercy from Allah. This is an advanced form of Shukar, but it grows naturally from the regular practice of reflecting on His favours.
Make this a daily habit, not an occasional exercise
The method only works if it is regular. A moment of gratitude that happens once is valuable but does not build the character trait. Shukar becomes a lasting quality when the reflection is a consistent, daily practice, morning, or before sleep, or at a fixed time that belongs to it.
How Shukar Leads to Love of Allah
Shukar connects directly to Muhabbat e Ilahi, love of Allah, and the connection is natural rather than abstract.
When a person regularly reflects on Allah's blessings upon them, truly thinks about them, holds them in mind, feels the weight of how much He has given, love of Allah naturally arises in the heart. You cannot genuinely see how generous someone has been to you and feel nothing. The feeling that follows from truly seeing it is love.
"Being delighted with Allah's blessings produces love of Allah in the heart. And from that love, the desire arises, when He gives us such blessings, it is a great shame to disobey Him with them."
Islah ul Akhlaaq. Arif Billah Hazrat Maulana Shah Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar رحمة الله عليه
This is how Shukar connects to the whole project of Tazkiyah. Shukar produces love. Love produces the desire to please. The desire to please produces consciousness of every action, because now every action is being measured not against fear of punishment alone, but against the love of the one you do not want to disappoint. That is the state Tazkiyah is building toward: Muhabbat e Ilahi.
Shukar, practised consistently and honestly, is one of the direct paths to getting there.
Start simply. Listen to Sabr aur Shukr kay Samaraat for a lecture combining both. Before sleeping tonight, name three specific blessings from today that you did not earn and did not ask for. Hold each one for a moment. That is the beginning of Infa'amat ul Ilahiya. Do it again tomorrow. And the day after. The quality builds slowly, but it builds, and what it produces in the heart, over time, is something that cannot be manufactured any other way.
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